“All the ways of a man are clean in his own eyes; but the LORD weigheth the spirits.
We shouldn’t do things that we have to convince ourselves are the right thing. If you keep telling yourself this is what I should do, then you will believe yourself. Some go as far as asking people if they should do it until they find someone that says yes. When someone gives you advice you may want to look at them and see how they are doing in their lives that pertains to your question. Like for me I can tell you exactly how to cause and get a divorce. I have been married 3 times. Still married and have been going on 10 years. I have learned that if you want to stay married you must bite your tongue and do somethings that you normally would rather not do every once and awhile.
Don’t be a an askhole. An askhole is someone who ask for advice and does the exact opposite.