Sin Cannot offer security! But if you live right, you will be as secure as a tree with deep roots.
To live right would be to follow the 10 rules for life that GOD gave us. If we follow these rules we will do right by others, our lives will be easier. Now there will be some hard times but if you live and do as you should you will make through those times. Except help when offered. God may be working through that person to help you. Also your hard time and their help may strengthen not only your relationship with God but also theirs.
There is a whole lot more to this life and to this world we live in. One day it will all be revealed to us and make sense. We don’t have the capacity to understand everything. We must have faith that it will work out.