“Some who have nothing may pretend to be rich, and some who have everything may pretend to be poor.”
We should always act as if we are poor in front of others. If someone needs help financially don’t help in front of everyone. Help in Private. When they pass the collection, plate put your gift in an envelope, or better yet mail your gift in and give small amounts in front of others. The main thing is if you feel led to give then you should give with out hesitation. If it troubles you to give, then don’t give. A forced gift is unwanted by the LORD. He only wants the gift of our love.